Punishing Differences

"If we cannot now end our differences, at least we can help make the world safe for diversity" (John F. Kennedy). Differences and the inability to accept such differences have always thwarted the worlds attempt to convene in a harmonious manner. Everyone is unique, there is no two exact things. The color of ones skin and ethnicity have always been a main way of distinction, but there's also ones sexual preferences, they're manner of thinking and viewing the world, characteristics (both external and internal), and thousands of others. Just because someone can't comprehend someone else and their differences does not give that person the liberty to discriminate and essentially "punish" that other human being for something that is out of their control.
In The Stranger by Albert Camus, the protagonist, Meursault, has a very unconventional thought process in which he is mostly governed by his physical condensations. It is out of his control because that's just how he is, at the same time his actions could be taken as a punishment towards the Arabs because of their current conflict with his own ethnicity. Regardless of the motives, the ambiguity of the situation is open to people's own interpretation which again correlates to how everyone is different and what one may see as innocence others will see as a guilty crime. You can't punish someone because they seem different, because you can't understand their motives. No one understood Meursault for his actions, but maybe that's just because he's clearly not mentally stable if he lets his emotions be governed by his atmosphere, it's out of his control. The death penalty he was sentenced to was to me an extreme, taking into consideration that the Arabs were also a non innocent party on the beach.
Currently, in the United States people are being discriminated against for their differences. Dark colored skinned people are being discriminated against because people automatically view them as criminals doing suspicious activities. The Latino ethnicity are automatically seen as "aliens", they also get unjustifiably punished for supposed suspicious activities. The middle eastern people are automatically viewed as terrorists. We don't give them the opportunity to prove that they're actually not so different from us, we're all one and the same. People that seem different are seen as inferior human beings, but why should this be permitted? Why is it that we can't accept each other's differences to reconcile with one another? We need "to recognize, accept, and celebrate those differences."

Self Destruction

"Some things are more precious because they don't last long (Oscar Wilde). People in the United States are faced with self image conflicts everyday that can essentially destroy them. It is vital that these issues of lack of self esteem and self image are obliterated. It doesn't matter whether it effects one person, thousands, billions, it should not even be an issue.
In The Picture of Dorian Gray, Oscar Wilde explores the functions of vanity and image of oneself and image in society. Dorian Gray is the prime example of vanity and image. He attempts to maintain a perfect image in the eyes of society in the beginning of the novel, but his self image is far more important to him than that of societies image on himself. His ambition for eternal youth drives him to his destruction and his inner turmoil is eventually shown externally.
All over the world, thousands and billions of individuals are confronted with the dilemma of self image. It is demonstrated in hundreds of ways as well; through illnesses such as eating disorders and depression or even bullying. "Nearly a quarter of girls age 15-17 would consider undergoing plastic surgery and 7 in 10 girls believe they are not good enough or do not measure up in some way including their looks, performance in school and relationship." These are serious situations that should be taken as such. People fall victim to self image, their self esteem diminishes and can lead to suicide. "In 2013 (the most recent year for which full data are available), 41,149 suicides were reported, making suicide the 10th leading cause of death for Americans."
These health issues can affect anyone around us, your friends, your family, and even yourself. We should know how to detect these negative connotations on self image in order to protect those we care for. Perfection is a facade, that cannot be reached, or implemented because it is not real, and there is no ideal for anything, especially when it can effect your health and mental stability.

Abuse

"Like a compass needle that points North a mans accusing finger will always find a woman. Always." Abuse comes in many different ways, physically, emotionally, psychologically.  It is understandable that not all inflictions come from males, females can inflict harm on the opposite sex just as equally. But most prominent in our society is the abuse of men on woman. Woman all over the world are harmed, in some countries it is seen as a norm. Is it normal to see your own mother beaten in front of your eyes--sometimes to death, and by someone nonetheless than your father?
In A Thousand Splendid Suns by Khaled Mouseein we witness the story of Mariam and Laila, who's lives through chance of fate bind them together in their endurance against their negation of rights and the abuse of man. Mariam's mother and her are rejected by her fathers families (his five wife's), and after a turn of fate is forced to marry a man almost thrice her age. She later has to endure the abuse of her alcoholic, masochistic husband and there is nothing she can do because society and the government is on her husbands side, woman are to be treated as property, nothing more than dogs. Along comes Laila who also becomes tied to Mariam's world and her husband Rasheed. She is at first treated as a trophy by Rasheed, but after she fails her husbands expectations she is thoroughly beaten and abused just as Mariam is and was abused since she was fifteen years old.
Woman are publicly abused to the extremes in a lot of third world countries just like in AnThousand Splendid Suns. In Afghanistan alone, "An estimated 2,000 Afghan women and girls attempt suicide by setting themselves on fire each year, which is linked to domestic violence and early or forced marriages." But it does not just happen in other countries, we must first take a glance in our own back yards. "More than 4 million women experience physical assault and rape by their partners. Men are victims of nearly 3 million physical assaults in the USA."
Abuse and maltreatment of anybody; men, woman, and children has to come to an end. If we join forces and pay more attention to what is going on in our world and the major negligence that we bestow on ourselves we can conquer the evil that is found in harming one another.

Gender Gap

"We can not all succeed when half of us are held back (Malala Yousafzai)." Woman's rights have been fought since the beginning of time. It has not been until just recently that woman have had the chance to vote, to work, to have their own individual rights in striving for equality. Why should men be the only ones to be able to make something of themselves? Why can't the roles be reversed, the woman now being the breadwinners, the successful? These questions have been asked time and time again, but when will it truly be equal among sexes?
In stories like The Awakening by Kate Chopin and The Doll House by Henrik Ibsen we became more aware of the oppression of woman, particularly during past time periods. Even though these novels/plays are in a different time period, they are still relevant today. We have come a long way, but equality is still not prevalent in today's society. You witnessed the utter desolation that Edna and Nora went through when they realized they were not in control of their own lives, their world governed by men and essentially their society. They could not do as men do, men were always smarter, stronger, perfect in every aspect; flawless. They had to be subservient to their invective husbands who were pedals talked by society, a society governed by men.
In our current society there still continues to be a major gender gap, sometimes without most people realizing it. "According to the U.S. Census Bureau, women made up 50.8% of the population. Starting in 2010 women became half of all workers in the U.S. Yet this mere presence of women in the workforce is anything but a show of equality when men hold the top management positions in a variety of professions in extremely unrepresentative numbers." In the work force woman are also usually overlooked by men and do not even receive equal pay, even if it's for the same profession. "Approximately 70% of people in national minimum wage jobs are women." Everyone should be able to be independent of the opposite sex, not have to determine who earns more than who, but work and strive for better, together.
As a woman I believe that as we have come along way, their is still major room for improvement. I will not settle for less, I do not ask for more privileges than men, I ask for equality.

Traumitized

"PTSD isn't about what's wrong with you, it's about what happened to you." Post Traumatic Stress Disorder is a serious issue that as a nation we must confront. Soldiers face traumatizing experiences everyday, wether it be directly inflicted upon them or someone else, a brother/sister, fellow soldier. So many people who have fought for our safety, risking their own lives, and do not receive proper treatment and care for their health or are homeless or disemployed.
In The Slaughterhouse Five by Kurt Vonnegut, Billy Pilgrim the principle figure in the story deals with the aftermath of his war experiences in surviving the Dresden bombing. He retells the events in a disordered fashion, which can be related to PTSD. Vonnegut's novel has several indirect anti war sentiments to show his readers the inflictions war does to someone.
Victor Gregg was also a survivor of Dresden he stated "Like Kurt Vonnegut in Slaughterhouse-Five, I wrote as I witnessed. I have no axe to grind. I just sat down and tried to empty my mind and clear away the residues of the nightmares that I still occasionally suffered from." That's what many of are soldiers have to deal with upon coming home. They may need more than just the minimum support, they need to be understood and properly cared for. Their thought maybe jumbled, they can relive their war experiences at any second, they can be a danger to their loved ones and even themselves. "Every day, 22 veterans take their own lives. That's a suicide every 65 minutes. As shocking as the number is, it may actually be higher."
By bringing more attention to the need of our returning soldiers, we can aide them in coping, we can save a life.  Just as we have felt the whirlpool plot of Vonnegut's novel, we can come to terms with how this may be just how all other soldiers may be traumatically affected. As a nation we have to act to bring a stop to the ailments of our brave soldiers and lessen their burdens and traumatic experiences that will be reoccurring with PTSD and other impairments, physically and psychologically.